I guess I'll be waiting until New Years of 2010 and then again reassess the benefit of this blog.
Friday, December 26, 2008
well, if thats how you want it....
I guess I'll be waiting until New Years of 2010 and then again reassess the benefit of this blog.
Sunday, March 2, 2008
who is Gaye Dalton? maybe a mix of good and bad
She makes many claims about me and my character despite never having met me. I, on the other hand, have no idea what she is really like, I've never met her and know no one who has. I make absolutely no claims about her in legal or mental health terms. You will find no slander here. This is merely a clearinghouse of links that have existed online for years, from which the readers can determine themselves, by her own documented words, what sort of character she is and how she has related to others over time.
I didn't know this until author Sam Vaknin posted publicly that Gaye uses the following online names:
Zeraeph
Xereaphia
mechanima
Blitzen
Susiejo
Ooomaa/Echo/Porphyria
RebornBitch/Lor
Lindystar
Omicah
SkittishKitten
Clovergarlic
Seva_d
GD
She publicly posts, as you will see, M A N Y different assessments and evaluations of my character despite never having met me or believing much of anything I share about myself, my family or my experiences. I invite you to read some of the many interactions she's had with me and a number of other people (including her being banned from Wikipedia, first for a few months, then for one year, and now finally permanently) and decide for yourself what she is like (take note of how often she accuses others, and not just me, of being erotomanic stalkers).
http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/phorum/read.php?39,93475,93743&035;msg-93743 ..... ..... http://www.careplace.com/forum/topic/3474?fs=0&start=0 .... .... http://www.careplace.com/forum/topic/7103?fs=0&start=0 .... .... http://www.careplace.com/forum/topic/6829?fs=0&start=0 .... .... http://www.careplace.com/forum/topic/3474?from=search#53389 .... .... http://www.careplace.com/forum/topic/6475?from=search#50538 .... ....
http://www.careplace.com/forum/topic/6829?fs=0&start=160
http://www.chameleongroup.org.uk/npd/Zeraeph.html .... .... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia_talk:Requests_for_arbitration/Zeraeph/Evidence
#Off-wiki_attacks .... .... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Requests_for_arbitration/Zeraeph/Evidence#Zeraeph.27s_Bullying_is_a_Longstanding_Negative_Influence .... ....
http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=User_talk:SandyGeorgia&diff=next&oldid=177330303 .... .... http://groups.msn.com/FriendsofNarcissists/general.msnw?action=get_message&mview=0&ID_Message=3404&LastModified=4675655237651800843 .... .... http://groups.msn.com/FriendsofNarcissists/general.msnw?action=get_message&mview=0&ID_Message=3428&LastModified=4675656487230985783 .... .... http://groups.msn.com/FriendsofNarcissists/general.msnw?action=get_message&mview=0&ID_Message=3403&LastModified=4675661278701830141 .... ....
http://groups.msn.com/FriendsofNarcissists/general.msnw?action=get_message&mview=0&ID_Message=3543&LastModified=4675664383733425078 .... ....
http://72.14.205.104/search?q=cache:nZ-01sbH2G0J:www.suite101.com/discussion.cfm/npd/123371/1161505+http://www.suite101.com/discussion.cfm/npd/123371/1161505&hl=en&ct=clnk&cd=1
http://72.14.205.104/search?q=cache:Tu3JWV6GpHsJ:www.suite101.com/discussion.cfm/npd/47657+http://www.suite101.com/discussion.cfm/npd/47657&hl=en&ct=clnk&cd=1
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/narcissisticpersonalitydisorder/message/587 .... .... http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/narcissisticpersonalitydisorder/message/138
http://wikipediareview.com/index.php?showtopic=14545&st=40
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia_talk:Requests_for_arbitration/Zeraeph/Evidence
http://www.irishhealth.com/?level=4&id=2349
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp1395350.html&highlight=#1395350
http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/archive/index.php/t-191801.html
http://www.careplace.com/group/513#forum-thread-8889
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt53562.html
http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/archive/index.php/t-191801-p-13.html
http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/archive/index.php/t-191801-p-3.html
http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=48800
http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=417864#post417864
http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=46531&page=4
http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=46531&page=2
http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=436109#post436109
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AS-and-Proud-of-it/message/27888
http://www.careplace.com/page/2188#forum-thread-9176
http://www.careplace.com/page/2188#forum-thread-9149
http://gayedalton.blogspot.com/
http://www.flickr.com/photos/thephoenix101/2235052452/
http://thephoenix101.deviantart.com/art/harassment-and-slander-76312624
http://72.14.205.104/search?q=cache:9nHckX7_e00J:www.suite101.com/discussion.cfm/npd/41901/8-17+http://www.suite101.com/discussion.cfm/npd/41901/8-17&hl=en&ct=clnk&cd=1
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp2008744.html&highlight=#2008744
http://nonbovine-ruminations.blogspot.com/2007/12/holidays-are-upon-us.html
http://aysoareag.org/index.php?option=com_awiki&view=mediawiki&article=User%3AZeraeph&Itemid=136
http://groups.google.com/group/news.admin.net-abuse.misc/browse_thread/thread/7a9ea5bd861ec640/27fd6548ec5152f8?q=
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.abuse.recovery/browse_thread/thread/b20600bfca29c078/ab9d095a09568dc0?q=
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp2274452.html&highlight=#2274452
http://wikipediareview.com/index.php?showtopic=22008
The man that sets out to carry a cat by it's tail learns something that will always be useful and which will never grow dim or doubtful. - Mark Twain
Wisdom consists in the anticipation of consequences. - Norman Cousins
Power is not revealed by striking hard or often, but by striking true. - Honore de Balzac
Saturday, March 1, 2008
and who am I? NOT Gaye Dalton, but a mix of good and bad too
an undisciplined but passionate artist, painter, sculptor, photographer
protective daughter, cantankerous sister, relaxed beta mom (and proud of it)
reliable lifelong friend with my exhusband, survivor of an emotionally abusive exboyfriend, somewhat intimacy-phobic but recovering non-committed woman with a couple really great guys in my life
I love my job, the people I work with, and the team I'm a part of where I get to be part one warden, one part therapist, 2 parts Auntie Mame !
I'm an unpredictable but reliable friend to my brigade of Les Grandes Dames.
I explore, challenge, travel but I also navel-gaze, hide and run away.
I welcome the wonderful company of good men into my life, while keeping them at a safe distance.
I'm passionate and loving while also being guarded and wounded.
I'm stubborn as hell !! But full of hope.
My hope was my commitment but kept me in a damaging relationship for years.
My faith is broken, but my willingness to mend it is intact.
I'm slow to learn, but I never forget a lesson.
I'm intelligent, talented and on a good moral path. I also make mistakes.
Most mistakes I laugh easily about, some I'm still trying to make amends to myself over.
I've learned in the last few years what it's like to feel desperation, melodrama, offense, doubt, suspicion, guilt, shame, hatred and rage. I'm more familair with my shadow side now than I ever was before.
And
I also have become intimate with my intuition, my resilience, my humility, and my faith in myself knowing right from wrong.
I'm lazy, undisciplined, and chaotic while also being determined, accomplished, impactful, influential and spontaneous.
I'm politically, globally and locally minded. I read, debate, laugh easily, and I cry too. I'm surrounded by friends, family, rewarding work and outside and self-support for my own creativity. I've had a good life, attached to nature, comfortably and quietly spiritual that took a nose dive for a few years..but the sun is shining again.
I also stand up to bullies and abusers.
"The dry seasons of life do not last. The spring rains come again."